Chatham Bars Inn is located in the town of Chatham, Massachusetts, about an hour into Cape Cod.

There are options to both fly and drive to Chatham, Massachusetts. For flight and driving recommendations, please visit the Travel tab.

Welcome Party – Resort Casual (White Out!)

Please wear white! Linen pants, button-down shirts, maxi or sundresses, or pants with blouses are all perfect choices. The event will be on the lawn, so sandals or block heels are recommended.

Wedding – Resort Formal

For men:

- Lightweight suit or dress pants with a blazer (linen or cotton are great)

- Collared dress shirt (tie optional)

- Loafers or dress shoes (no sneakers or flip-flops)

For women:

- Long dress, elevated midi dress, or a dressy jumpsuit

- Light, breathable fabrics like chiffon, silk, or linen blends

- Dressy sandals or heels (block heels or wedges are recommended for wedding ceremony)

Lawn Games & Libations – Summer Picnic/BBQ Attire

Think relaxed and fun!

- For men: shorts and a collared shirt.

- For women: sundresses or pants. This event will also take place on the lawn, so sandals or flat shoes are recommended.

We have two room block options in the town of Chatham: one at our wedding venue, Chatham Bars Inn, and another at a small boutique hotel, The Grayfinch Inn. You can access booking links for both under the “Hotel Accommodations” tab.

If you prefer not to stay within the room blocks, there are many charming boutique hotels and smaller inns throughout Chatham and the surrounding beach towns. You can also find private homes and condos available for rent on VRBO and Airbnb.